Key Difference #1: Who Files the Divorce Application
Simple Divorce: One Applicant, One Respondent
In a simple divorce (sometimes called an uncontested divorce), only one spouse files the divorce application. That spouse is the applicant, while the other spouse is the respondent.
Key characteristics in Ontario include:
- The applicant prepares and files the divorce application alone
- The respondent must be formally served with court documents
- The respondent has a limited time to respond (typically 30 days if served in Canada)
- Even if the respondent agrees with the divorce, the legal structure still treats it as a one-sided filing
This setup can create practical challenges, even when both spouses are cooperative:
- Service issues: If the respondent avoids service or delays responding, the divorce can stall
- Extra paperwork: Affidavits of service and additional court forms are required
- Communication gaps: The applicant often carries the administrative burden alone
In Toronto, many “simple” divorces become slower and more expensive not because of legal disputes, but because of procedural issues related to service and follow-up.
Joint Divorce: Both Spouses Are Applicants
In a joint divorce, both spouses apply together as co-applicants. There is no applicant/respondent relationship.
Key features under Ontario law:
- Both spouses sign and file the divorce application jointly
- No service of documents is required
- Both parties confirm they agree on the divorce and its terms
- The court treats the matter as fully uncontested from the start
This structure significantly simplifies the process:
- Fewer forms: No affidavits of service or response timelines
- Clear communication: Both spouses move through each step together
- Lower risk of delay: No waiting for a response from the other party
How This Difference Affects Paperwork and Communication
The way the application is filed has real, practical consequences in Ontario family courts:
Paperwork
- Simple divorce requires more forms, especially around service
- Joint divorce eliminates service-related documents entirely
- Courts are less likely to request corrections in joint filings
Communication
- Simple divorce can create tension by placing one spouse in a reactive role
- Joint divorce encourages transparency and shared responsibility
- Fewer misunderstandings about timelines and next steps
Risk of Delay
- Simple divorces are commonly delayed by missed responses or improper service
- Joint divorces move more smoothly because both parties are already participating
Key Difference #2: Level of Cooperation Required
Simple Divorce: Agreement Exists, but Limited Cooperation Is Needed
A simple divorce assumes that the spouses agree on the divorce itself, but it does not require ongoing cooperation throughout the filing process.
Key points about cooperation in a simple divorce:
- Only one spouse controls the filing process
- The respondent does not need to actively participate
- Minimal communication is required after service of documents
- The divorce can proceed even if the respondent is disengaged
However, “limited cooperation” does not mean “no cooperation at all.” The respondent must still:
- Be successfully served
- Avoid filing an objection
- Not take steps that delay or complicate the process
Joint Divorce: High Cooperation and Coordination Required
A joint divorce requires a high level of cooperation from start to finish. Both spouses must actively participate and remain aligned throughout the process.
Key cooperation requirements in a joint divorce:
- Both spouses must agree to file together
- Both must review and sign all court documents
- Both must coordinate on timing and filing details
- Both must remain responsive until the divorce is finalized
In Toronto, joint divorces tend to move more efficiently when spouses:
- Have a clear separation agreement already in place
- Trust each other to follow through on commitments
- Are comfortable sharing information and timelines
When Cooperation Breaks Down
The consequences of a breakdown in cooperation differ significantly between the two divorce types.
In a simple divorce:
- The applicant can usually continue without the respondent’s involvement
- Non-responsiveness does not automatically stop the case
- Delays are possible, but the process is not entirely dependent on mutual effort
In a joint divorce:
- The process can come to a complete halt
- One spouse cannot move forward independently
- The joint application may need to be abandoned and restarted as a simple divorce
Key Difference #3: Service of Documents
One of the most practical and often misunderstood differences between a simple divorce and a joint divorce in Toronto is the requirement for service of documents.
Simple Divorce: Formal Service Is Required
In a simple divorce, the applicant is legally required to formally serve the respondent with the divorce application and supporting documents.
Key points about service in a simple divorce:
- The respondent cannot serve themselves
- Service must follow Ontario court rules
- Proof of service must be filed with the court
- The divorce cannot proceed without proper service
Service is typically completed by:
- A professional process server
- A friend or family member over 18 (not involved in the case)
- An alternative method approved by the court, if necessary
After service, the applicant must file an Affidavit of Service confirming when and how the documents were delivered. Any error wrong address, improper delivery, or missing affidavit can result in the court rejecting the application or requiring re-service.
Joint Divorce: No Service Required
A joint divorce eliminates the service requirement entirely.
Because both spouses file together as co-applicants:
- No one needs to be served
- No Affidavit of Service is required
- There is no response or answer period
- The court treats the application as mutually acknowledged from the outset
Cost and Time Impact of Service
Service directly affects both cost and timeline, particularly in a simple divorce.
Cost impact in a simple divorce:
- Process server fees (often several hundred dollars)
- Additional legal fees if service must be repeated
- Extra costs if court approval is needed for alternative service
Time impact in a simple divorce:
- Delays if the respondent avoids service
- Waiting periods before the respondent’s response deadline expires
- Possible court motions if service cannot be completed
In a joint divorce:
- No service-related costs
- No waiting period tied to service deadlines
- Faster progression to the divorce order once filed
Key Difference #4: Timelines and Processing
Typical Timelines for a Simple Divorce
A simple divorce generally takes longer than people expect, even when there is no dispute.
In Toronto, a typical simple divorce timeline often looks like this:
- Filing the application: Once the applicant files, the court issues the divorce papers
- Service of documents: The respondent must be formally served
- Response period: The respondent has time to file an answer or choose not to respond
- Affidavit and final steps: The applicant files additional affidavits and requests a divorce order
- Divorce order: Issued by the court if all requirements are met
- Divorce certificate: Available after the waiting period following the order
Typical Timelines for a Joint Divorce
A joint divorce removes several procedural steps, which can shorten the overall timeline.
A typical joint divorce process includes:
- Joint preparation of documents: Both spouses complete and sign the application together
- Single filing: The joint application is filed with the court
- Court review: The court reviews the application as uncontested
- Divorce order: Issued if all legal requirements are met
- Divorce certificate: Available after the mandatory waiting period
As a result, joint divorces in Toronto are often finalized more efficiently than simple divorces.
Why Joint Divorces Are Often Smoother but Not Always Faster
While joint divorces are usually smoother, they are not automatically faster in every situation.
Reasons joint divorces are smoother:
- Fewer procedural steps
- No service or response delays
- Clear indication of mutual agreement
- Lower risk of technical objections
However, joint divorces can slow down when:
- One spouse delays reviewing or signing documents
- Communication breaks down mid-process
- Disagreements arise over wording or timing
- One spouse becomes unresponsive
Processing Reality in Toronto Courts
It is also important to recognize that court processing times play a role regardless of divorce type. Toronto courts manage high volumes of family law files, and processing speed can vary based on:
- Court backlogs
- Accuracy and completeness of filings
- Seasonal workload fluctuations
Key Difference #5: Cost Considerations
Legal Cost Differences
From a legal fee perspective, joint divorces are generally less expensive than simple divorces.
Simple divorce legal costs often increase because:
- One spouse handles the entire filing process alone
- Additional affidavits and procedural steps are required
- Legal help is often needed to manage service, deadlines, and court rejections
- Errors can lead to refiling or additional legal work
Even when lawyers are not fully retained, many people pursuing a simple divorce in Toronto still require limited-scope legal assistance to correct forms or address service issues adding to the overall cost.
Joint divorce legal costs are typically lower because:
- Paperwork is shared and completed together
- Fewer procedural steps are involved
- There is a lower risk of contested issues or objections
- Lawyers (if used) often charge a single flat fee for document preparation and filing
Because the court views a joint divorce as fully uncontested, less legal oversight is usually required once the application is filed correctly.
Process Server and Administrative Costs
One of the clearest cost differences between the two processes comes from service-related expenses.
In a simple divorce:
- A process server is often required
- Fees vary but can be significant, especially in Toronto
- Additional costs may arise if:
- Service must be attempted multiple times
- The respondent lives outside the city or province
- Alternative service is needed with court approval
- Administrative costs increase due to extra affidavits and filings
In a joint divorce:
- No process server is needed
- No affidavits of service are required
- Fewer administrative filings reduce court-related costs
How Cooperation Reduces Overall Expense
The biggest cost-saving factor in any Ontario divorce is cooperation.
When spouses cooperate:
- Fewer documents need to be revised or refiled
- Communication delays are reduced
- Legal professionals spend less time correcting avoidable issues
- Court involvement is minimized
Practical Cost Comparison for Toronto Couples
- Joint divorce: Often the lowest overall cost when cooperation is reliable
- Simple divorce: Higher cost, but more control if cooperation is limited
- Poor coordination: The most expensive scenario, regardless of divorce type
Numan Bajwa is the Founding Partner at Bluetown Law – Family Lawyers. He earned his Juris Doctor from the University of Detroit Mercy School of Law (2011–2014) and holds an Honours degree in Criminology from the University of Windsor (2003–2008).







